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The Truth Behind The Trophy Wife Myth
“The shiniest trophy in the room will get all the attention and the person holding it will obviously benefit from it as well. Dear Trophy Woman, know that your value is based on how hard you shine and how many people you dazzle.”
Somewhere at 3 am
- Every man wants a good-looking wife.
- “Yeah…so?”
- Well… if you aren’t good looking enough, the man telling you that you have to dress better and basically look different is focused on what you look like. To go even further, he is heeding on what the world perceives. The saddest part is that your value is exclusively based on that.
- But we have to be physically attracted to each other, right? That’s important too!
- Yes but… does it mean that you have to let go of who you are as a person? What actually makes you…You? Put your own self in the background of someone’s dream based on how you have to look?
-Okay let’s say that it would have been better if he knew who you were and wanted to get to know you better. For who you really are… Like “inside”. You know… who you are spiritually and mentally…and what you stand for…
